“She’s Out Of My Life”

When a man is too jealous of his wife, it is veering towards obsession and not love. Many young girls fall into this trap and most times live their lives in the hell hole because they cannot exit again. Excessive jealousy is a means of control. Control that sometimes cover the actions ( which the controller partakes in-” Apani kò ní jé a mú idà kojá l’órí òun”) of the controller and softens the “controllee” to a point in which s/he begins to think his/her existence depends on the controller. S/he becomes malleable and doubts so much. So, forget your friend and wish and wait for the day she will ‘open eye’ and face her controller. On that day if it ever come, you will hear stories. That is if you have not been hearing stories now.


[1st Verse]
“She’s Out Of My Life
She’s Out Of My Life
And I Don’t Know Whether To Laugh Or Cry
I Don’t Know Whether To Live Or Die
And It Cuts Like A Knife
She’s Out Of My Life”


Recently, thoughts of her have been ruminating through my head.
Infact I drove through her neighbourhood which is just about 5 minutes from mine last Friday but didn’t think of trying to check her.

I stood no chance anyway.

On like two different occasions I’d parked not so far from her neighbourhood and called her relentlessly to no avail.

I’ve lost my young beautiful friend to 3 years married life (wif a lovely boy) and I can’t see her again.

This was someone I used to drive down to her Surulere abode to go eat ‘Ikokore’ (a massive Ijebu delicacy) and this guy “captured” her then friends like…

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100TPC — 2016

It is the paradox of the black dot in the middle of the white paper. Those who made violence, injustice and inequalities their sonata are very few in the world. The armoury merchants, the sponsors of violence and the barons of industries are a small percentage of the billions in this world. However, they are empowered and and have the media which they use in cowering the 90 something percent down . A forum like this is an attempt to poke injustice in the eye. Read the tarry a while postings , most especially the “tarry a while vii ” on my blog- https://femidadaadedina.wordpress.com/ . This is a good project but we can go further than words by networking and contributing to raise funds and start projects that will contribute to fighting social injustice and bring about sustainability.

The BeZine

Welcome to The BeZine’s online,
virtual 100,000 Poets for Change event!

This past week, an international aid convoy in Syria was attacked with devastating results, during a ceasefire. Bombs went off, as usual, in Iraq. They also went off in New Jersey and New York. There were terrorist knife attacks in Jerusalem. And knife attacks also in St. Cloud, Minnesota. Police shot (at least) two unarmed African-Americans in the United States. Police shot “terror suspects” in Israel. Iran arrested dissidents. China gave a dissident’s attorney a 12-year sentence.

Climate change has reduced the arctic ice sheets at record levels, this summer just ended. The Fertile Crescent, where Western civilization began, has suffered such a devastating drought that farmers have fled it for years now—a contributing cause to the Syrian civil war and the refugee crisis. The hardened, drought-stricken soil in the region, broken up by heavy war-machinery, artillery shelling, and bombs, has…

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Faith is

This is purely true. Faith goes beyond evidence. Every blessed day that we wake up we exist because we have faith that we will be taken care of. To believers it is not only the wondrous work of the Creator that gives us faith but it is the belief that GOD is always there. Forget the pontifications of the atheists and look at the workings of our bodily system and that of the galaxies and then go beyond all that to ask some simple question : before the BIG BANG what existed? Who triggered the BANG? Can a soup evolved? What and who powers the soup made after the BANG? Is there any of the atheists that can categorically give the date, hour ,minute and second that he will exit this world? Without answers to these questions, all of us have to live by faith because existence is beyond faith.

A disciple's study


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